Sexuality isn’t a simple yes or no answer, and many people are confused and unsure of where they fit in on the spectrum. If you are one of those people and are questioning your sexuality, these signs will help you determine whether you might potentially be pan-sexual or bi-sexual.
Analyze Your Attraction
If you often feel attraction towards the people of opposite genders, you may be bi. It can help to try and analyze the feelings you have for others. What is it that attracts you to the same gender? Do you just find the same gender attractive, or are you having romantic or sexual thoughts? These questions can help you determine what it means to you. You should also ask yourself whether you often experience this type of attraction or whether it’s correlated to one person. If it’s just one person, it may be an isolated case and may not necessarily mean that you are bi-sexual.
Is Gender Important Factor in Your Attraction?
Ask yourself whether the gender of the person affects whether you are attracted to them. If you find that traits the person possesses are what draws you in, you may be pan-sexual. This would mean that you are attracted to all genders.
Do You Resonate with People Who are Bi or Pan?
If you look up to celebrities or people in your life who identify as bi or pansexual, it may be a sign that you are as well. We often resonate well with people who have the same values as we do.
Do You Want to Branch Out?
Sometimes just having a feeling is enough. If you are ready to explore new things, and try relationships with different people, allow yourself to do so. All the answers you are searching for are hidden within yourself.
Decide What Feels Right to You
At the end of the day, it’s all just labels. Try to figure out what makes you feel the most comfortable and which label you think works for you. You don’t have to choose any label if you don’t want to.
